At Bethany we see the Lord Jesus adopting a family scene. Had Jesus disallowed the idea of a Christian family, He could not have been at Bethany, as we see He was. And yet, when we get Him there, it is only some new phase of moral beauty that we trace in Him. He is a friend of the family, finding, as we find to this day among ourselves, a home in the midst of them. “Now Jesus loved Martha, and her sister, and Lazarus” are words which show this. His love to them was not that of a Saviour, or a shepherd, though we know well that He was each of these to them. It was the love of a family friend. But though a friend, He was an intimate friend, who might, whenever He pleased, find a welcome there, yet He did not interfere with the arrangements of the house. Martha was the housekeeper, the busy one of the family, useful and important in her place, and Jesus will surely leave her where He finds her. It was not for Him to alter or settle such matters. Lazarus may sit by the side of the guest at the family table. Mary may be abstracted and withdrawn as in her own kingdom, or into the kingdom of God within her, and Martha be busy serving. Be it so. Jesus leaves all this just as He finds it. He, who would not enter the house of another unbidden, when entered into the house of these sisters and their brother will not meddle with its order and arrangements, and this is full moral comeliness. But if one of the family, instead of carrying herself in her family place, step out of it to be a teacher in His presence, He must and will then resume His higher character, and set things right divinely, though He would not interfere with them or touch them domestically.
J. G. Bellett
“God commendeth His love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”